The Search to Belong - An Intro

We all desire to belong, but our western culture has created for us a conundrum. There is both the problem of limited ways to belong and a confusion of what belonging really means. We either are shut off from the world or thrust into an environment where we are forced to become "intimate and open." Culture has messed us up and we are in need of changed perspectives.

"I don't search for the answer. Instead, I offer a framework - a language of belonging - to describe how we can discover healthy connections naturally." It is refreshing to pick up a book on community that doesn't prescribe the ten steps to ensure a healthy community. Many churches do community groups very well. We are however very different than each of those churches, therefore can't model our groups after theirs. We have to come up with what works for us. The above statement is refreshing because it doesn't prescribe for us what to do, but rather offers an insight into peoples desire for belonging. For me this is refreshing to read as I begin the book.

"...we may need to find a new definition for those who encompass "congregation." And, invite all those who connect to join the conversation." This is also language that is exciting to read prior to diving into a book. All to often our groups have a tendency become a club of sorts and we are closed off to the people we come in contact with. When I read this sentence I have an idea that Joseph Myers has a very inclusive perspect on the idea of community therefore resounding with our heart beat at AAC. Refreshing!

Thanks for joining me in this book blog. I will continue to go through this book a chapter a week and hope you can join along in the conversation!